You probably already have some important songs in mind that have to be played at your wedding. Every couple has those songs that remind them of their relationship. Every individual has songs that are nostalgic for them, their friends, and their family. There is a temptation to play these songs unhindered by censorship. While these songs may not be completely “explicit”, there are occasionally themes or words that would not sit well with a wedding crowd.

Respecting Guests

There are guests who may get a little uncomfortable when they hear profanity. This could be older guests who may feel the words are disrespectful. This could be religious individuals or people who have a personal problem with bad language. This could be children who do not need to be exposed to more mature themes. Weddings are a time for people to come together and celebrate. It’s not a good idea to leave a bad taste in their mouths as they celebrate you.

The exception to this would be if you know for a fact that there will not be anyone in attendance who will be offended. It is better to err on the side of caution. If you are questioning whether a guest will be offended, you can always ask them. If you do not feel comfortable asking, then you probably already know the answer. Do not yuck a yum by playing music that will make people squirm.

A Reverent Event

Weddings are mired in tradition and respect. The people who attend your wedding will have a certain expectation. Weddings are generally classy affairs. You will be spending a lot of money to make sure that everything is perfect. Nothing can kill a mood more than hearing some unsavory language in the middle of your reception. 

There are plenty of versions of songs available that have a censored version or a radio edit. This can make sure that there is not a sudden surprising word popping up while you may be talking with more reserved family members. But just because it is censored does not mean it is in the clear yet. Context with songs is important. If it is a song that has a disrespectful subject matter, this can be worse than hearing a few bad words. 

If You Must, Play Them Late

You are a grown adult. You do not have to feel like you have to keep your reception puritanical. You can still let loose and play the music you like. It is just a better idea in the long run to either cut those songs or wait until later in the evening. After dinner and a few reception standards, guests will naturally start to thin out. Older guests and guests with children tend to be the first to leave. Once you feel as though everyone in attendance will be game, you can really play whatever you want. At the end of the day, it is your wedding and you should be able to celebrate how you see fit. Remember to be respectful, but do not feel like you have to make everyone happy all the time.