Let’s face it, selecting your wedding music – and your first dance song in particular – is challenging for everyone, let alone couples who fall on the LGBTQ+ spectrum. As such, you probably want/demand/hope for something that is a bit more unique to celebrate the most special moments of your big day! It’s incredibly important that we find ways throughout the evening to celebrate your love and commitment together, while ensuring that there are no awkward moments as your first dance song plays: perhaps singing about a gender that neither you nor your partner identify with! You certainly don’t need that on a day that is supposed to be all about your love and starting your new lives together! And, and Beat Train Productions, we’re deeply committed to giving every single couple – regardless of their sexuality or gender expression – a wedding dance experience of a lifetime!

So, without further ado, and no matter what kind of first dance you’re after; here’s a small collection of our favorite gender-neutral first dance songs.

Gender Neutral Love Songs

“Oh My Love” by John Lennon

“The Luckiest” by Ben Folds 

“You Are The Reason” by Calum Scott

“I Was Born To Love You” by Queen

“Truly, Madly, Deeply” by Savage Garden

“Best Of My Love” by The Emotions

“More Than Words” by Extreme

“You Are The Best Thing” by Ray LaMontagne

“Tip Of My Tongue” by The Civil Wars

“How Long Will I Love You” by Ellie Goulding

“All Mine” by Portishead

“Adore You” by Miley Cyrus

“Stand By Me” by Ben E. King

“It Had to Be You” by Frank Sinatra

“Dance Me To The End Of Love” by Leonard Cohen

“Welcome Home” by Joy Williams

“I Wanna Dance With Somebody” by Whitney Houston

“Latch” by Sam Smith

“Halo” by Beyonce

“Come Away With Me” by Norah Jones

“Unforgettable” by Nat ‘King’ Cole

“Because You Loved Me” by Celine Dion

“I Choose You” by Sara Bareilles

“Can’t Help Falling In Love” by Elvis

“At Last” by Etta James

“A Thousand Years” by Christina Perri 

“Sea of Love” by Phil Phillips

“First Day Of My Life” by Bright Eyes

“I’m Yours” by Jason Mraz

“In Your Eyes” by Peter Gabriel